{"id":5354,"date":"2025-10-10T15:57:21","date_gmt":"2025-10-10T15:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsusa33.com\/?p=5354"},"modified":"2025-10-11T06:23:36","modified_gmt":"2025-10-11T06:23:36","slug":"9-weirdest-signs-someone-will-be-good-in-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newsusa33.com\/?p=5354","title":{"rendered":"9 Weirdest Signs Someone Will Be Good In Bed"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s almost impossible to\u00a0tell if someone will be good in bed<\/a>\u00a0just by looking at them. There aren\u2019t any tried-and-true giveaways, like a certain type of haircut or a specific style \u2014 and sometimes it\u2019s even the people who seem cool on the surface who end up letting you down the most during sex.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why if you\u2019re ever on a first date and trying to get a read on a potential hookup, you might want to keep an eye out for some of the sneakier\u00a0signs someone\u2019s good in the sack<\/a>. According to Susan Trombetti, a matchmaker and CEO of\u00a0Exclusive Matchmaking<\/a>, one of the first things to look for is how they carry themselves.<\/p>\n

\u201cConfident people make great lovers,\u201d she tells Bustle. \u201cThink about it: Someone who\u2019s shy and lacking in confidence is going to be nervous about taking risks in the bedroom or just being in the moment.\u201d While a shy person may open up eventually, it\u2019s the date who seems relaxed and self-assured who\u2019s most likely to rock your world.<\/p>\n

Another giveaway is a fun-loving personality. Are they laughing? Cracking jokes? Do they find your humor irresistible? Consider it a good omen. \u201cPeople who love to have fun are going to have fun in the bedroom, and that means so are you,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

With those basics out of the way, here are some of the weirder signs someone will be good in bed, according to dating experts.<\/p>\n

1. They\u2019re Not Afraid Of Eye Contact<\/h2>\n

If someone has\u00a0flirty eye contact<\/a>, consider yourself in good hands. Think sexy glances, smoldering stares, or a confident gaze that makes you go weak in the knees. (Bonus points if they glance down at your lips, a clue they might be trying\u00a0the TikTok-viral \u201ctriangle method.\u201d<\/a>) Their inability to look away is a surefire sign they\u2019ll give you the same amazing attention in bed.<\/p>\n

\u201cSomeone who locks eyes with you and never drops their gaze is communicating in a hot and steamy manner,\u201d says Trombetti. Chances are they\u2019ll carry that sexy energy all the way into the bedroom where they\u2019ll proceed to make the night all about you.<\/p>\n

2. They\u2019re An Amazing Dancer<\/h2>\n

Is your date a good dancer? Are they tossing you to and fro? Do they jump up when the DJ plays their favorite song? If so, brace yourself for a good time. \u201cSomeone who\u2019s a great dancer not only has the moves on the dance floor but also in bed,\u201d says Trombetti. It means they aren\u2019t afraid to move their body, let loose, and have fun.<\/p>\n

Even someone who pays attention to the music at the bar or taps their fingers along to the beat could be what you\u2019re looking for. \u201cPeople who seem to be having rhythm and soul \u2014 for example, those who aren\u2019t afraid to groove to that music playing when you sit and have a glass of wine \u2014 are often fun to make love with,\u201d adds\u00a0Sofie Roos<\/a>, a licensed sexologist and relationship therapist. Keep an eye out for rhythm.<\/p>\n

3. They\u2019re A Total Foodie<\/h2>\n

Take note if your date is really getting into dinner and dessert \u2014 and not just because they\u2019re hungry. Are they commenting on the brightness of the salad? The expert way the bartender poured their drink? Or the amazing dipping sauce that came with your fries? If so, you might be in luck. \u201cIt means they love a good experience, and they will savor sex with you and not rush it in the bedroom,\u201d says Trombetti.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019re Curious About Your Life<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s usually abundantly clear when someone is just looking for a quick hookup. While that can be fun at times, if you want someone to truly rock your world in bed you\u2019ll want to invest in the people who invest in you.<\/p>\n

Your crush might be good in bed if they take an interest in the deeper aspects of your personality. Are they asking about your hopes and dreams? Do they want to know what you studied in college and why? According to Trombetti, these are all good signs they\u2019ll be just as interested in what you want and like in the bedroom.<\/p>\n

Open and fun conversation also paves the way for\u00a0good communication in bed<\/a>. Their openness to talk and learn about you means they\u2019ll be just as tuned in while you hook up. \u201cThey will be curious about what you like and what turns you on, which translates to great sex,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n

5. They Have A Lot Of Books<\/h2>\n
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Thank legendary filmmaker, John Waters, for this important point: \u201cIf you go home with somebody and they don’t have books, don’t f*ck them.\u201d What does that mean exactly? People who love to read yearn to explore other worlds, get lost in other dimensions, continue to learn, and grow as human beings. If you go to their apartment and immediately spy a bookshelf or a pile of well-worn novels, it\u2019s a good sign.<\/p>\n

6. They\u2019re Spontaneous<\/h2>\n
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Take note if your crush likes to have fun, especially if their adventures are spur-of-the-moment. According to Roos, \u201cSpontaneous people who are always up to join in on your weird or last-minute plans tend to be more open to trying new, fun stuff in bed, too, and they also tend to have a more curious and playful attitude towards being intimate in the bedsheets.\u201d Are they excited to join you on a random outing? Do they love to hear stories of your weird and wonderful travels? Are they whisking you on an adventure to an underground speakeasy? Then chances are they\u2019ll be a great time in bed.<\/p>\n

7. They Can Laugh At Themselves<\/h2>\n
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While some people might get embarrassed or angry if they trip on the sidewalk or spill their drink in the restaurant, you want to keep an eye out for folks who immediately laugh it off like it\u2019s no big deal. Even if they do feel shy for a second, it\u2019s a good sign if they have a light sense of humor about mishaps.<\/p>\n

According to Roos, this is a sign they\u2019ll be giving in bed and not embarrassed to try new things \u2014 if that\u2019s what you want to do. \u201cThey will also be caring about your pleasure in a charming way that makes you feel relaxed,\u201d she says. In other words? Nothing is sexier than someone who doesn\u2019t take themselves too seriously.<\/p>\n

8. They Have A Passion Project<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re looking for someone who will be passionate in the bedroom, then look for someone passionate in everyday life. If your date has a long list of things they care about, it often means they have passion in other areas of life.\u00a0Wink wink<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Can they talk at length about grassroots social movements? A hobby they\u2019ve loved for ages? Movies? Cooking? \u201cIf someone goes all-in when they\u2019re doing something […] then it\u2019s a sign that they\u2019ll take sex and intimacy seriously, too,\u201d says Roos. \u201cThey will put a lot of their emotions and soul into making love.\u201d<\/p>\n

9. They\u2019re Extra Attentive On The Date<\/h2>\n

Take note if your date passes you the salt, notices when your drink is running low, or picks up on a subtle facial movement and immediately reads it accurately, like when you\u2019re bored at the bar and want to go somewhere new. \u201cThis is a person who is going to be just as attentive in bed and miss no detail,\u201d says Trombetti. If they\u2019re 10 steps ahead on your date, chances are they\u2019ll be 10 steps ahead in bed.<\/p>\n

Sources:<\/em><\/p>\n

Susan Trombetti, matchmaker, CEO of\u00a0Exclusive Matchmaking<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Sofie Roos<\/a>, licensed sexologist, relationship therapist<\/em><\/p>\n

Additional reporting by Amanda Chatel<\/strong><\/p>\n

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