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Date night can be extremely romantic and special, from dinner to dessert. Speaking of dessert, sweets aren\u2019t the only treats you and your partner can enjoy together. If you desire something extra special on the menu for your next date (or whenever), I\u2019m here to let you in on\u00a0what sexual positions guarantee orgasms<\/a>\u00a0for women. Elite Daily spoke with\u00a0sex educator Lola Jean<\/a>\u00a0and Jess O\u2019Reilly, PhD., host of the\u00a0@SexWithDrJess podcast<\/a>\u00a0to get the scoop, and you may find it pretty sweet.<\/p>\n Being creative, spontaneous, and fresh in your sex life \u2014 when it comes to both penetrative and solo sex \u2014 can really spice things up. Jean points out there technically isn\u2019t a \u201cguarantee\u201d you\u2019ll have an orgasm during penetrative sex, because the vulva is always changing \u2014 most specifically when you\u2019re getting close to your period. \u201cOn top of that, most [people with vulvas] require clitoral or external stimulation in order to achieve an orgasm,\u201d she says. So while the positions below are great to turn to in the heat of the moment, they\u2019re not the only ways to get you off. (As a matter of fact, Jean added, when it comes to sex, \u201cWe should be asking and challenging ourselves how we define sex and why the sole focus is on penetrative acts.\u201d)<\/p>\n Below, you\u2019ll find sex positions that will give you a better chance of achieving an orgasm, mainly because they\u2019re moves that in some way will stimulate your clitoris. (However, Jean notes that although \u201cyou can access the clitoris internally \u2014 ahem, G-spot \u2014 it\u2019s important to recognize this area is also the clitoris and it doesn\u2019t make one [internal or external] orgasm superior over the other.\u201d) They\u2019re moves you can do with a partner, but also positions you can achieve just as easily when you\u2019re on your own. If you\u2019re femme-identifying, here are some positions to try out.<\/p>\n Who knew you could totally revolutionize missionary if you just put a pillow under your butt? missionary may get a \u201cbad\u201d rap for being \u201clazy,\u201d but this one’s good.<\/p>\n Lay on your back, in missionary, grab the fluffiest pillow you’ve got, and place it under your butt. This should lift the entire lower half of your body off the bed to allow for deeper penetration in missionary. Wrap your legs around your partner for extra depth. Jean says this position is awesome because of \u201cthe elevated and curvature of the pelvis this position provides.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWhen you elevate your hips or \u2018cat\u2019 your back (like in yoga class), you are shortening the distance of your pelvis, creating a bit easier access to your [G-spot]. This position is also easier on the body as the hips are one of our strongest and most stable areas. Grind those hips left, right, and around the world for added clit stimulation from body to body,\u201d she says. If you want more control in this particular position, Jean recommends having a partner \u201cstay still as you move and grind on them and vise versa to understand which combination of movements feel best.\u201d<\/p>\n This is another twist on missionary, which Jean notes is a favorite position for a lot of reasons. \u201cBy elevation and \u2018folding\u2019 your body in half, you\u2019re shortening the distance of your pelvis. You\u2019re also in a hinge position so every time your partner leans forward, you increase the angle at which you are elevated,\u201d she says. If you experience vaginal pain, Jean notes you should probably steer clear from this position because there\u2019s not as much \u201cdepth control.\u201d<\/p>\n Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen tells Elite Daily this position is great for getting the pelvic area moving, because you\u2019re pretty much moving like a \u201cfolding chair\u201d \u2014 hence the name. It allows you extra motion while your legs are against bae\u2019s shoulders. She says movement in this position is a bit simpler than when you\u2019re flat in missionary position, for example.<\/p>\n For this position, assume a regular cuddly spooning position and allow your partner to enter you from behind. \u201cThe closeness of this position as well rigidity of your legs\/genitals makes this position great for those who may find more movement painful,\u201d Jean says. \u201cStay still and work on smaller hip movements as well as engaging your pelvic floor muscles on each other.\u201d (Yes, that means both of you.) She adds, \u201cIt\u2019s important to remember many sexual positions can be painful for individuals even with a copious amount of lube. This position is a nice one to get in the swing of things and increase your own natural lubrications.\u201d<\/p>\n O\u2019Reilly even suggests incorporating a \u201cpleasure air toy\u201d in the spooning position, noting the\u00a0We-Vibe Melt<\/a>\u00a0($149, SheVibe.com) specifically is an awesome slimline toy for couples. She says, \u201cMany folks describe these toys as \u2018suction toys,\u2019 but they create intense pleasure with tiny waves of air directly over the head of the clitoris (or anywhere you want it). The Melt is perfect for partnered play (you can even control it from the app if you want), so either of you can take the reins of the control.\u201d<\/p>\n Jean also recommends using a product like\u00a0OhNut<\/a>\u00a0($65, Ohnut.com) that\u2019ll benefit both you and your partner. Queen recommends a couple \u201cpro-orgasmic toys\u201d as well, including\u00a0cock rings<\/a>\u00a0(starting at $6, GoodVibes.com) and the\u00a0We-Vibe Unite<\/a>\u00a0($99, GoodVibes.com). She notes most of these toys enhance sex positions and are stimulating for your clit.<\/p>\n There’s nothing like being on top to make you feel like you’re in control of your own pleasure. You can control the speed of the thrusting, the depth of your partner\u2019s entry, and which walls inside of you they hit. So get on top, lower yourself onto your partner, and start moving up and down. \u201cIf you really want to up the chance of having an orgasm via penetrative sex, this should be your go-to because this position has the best access for external stimulation,\u201d Jean says.<\/p>\n Queen says the cowgirl position allows \u201cthe \u2018cowgirl\u2019 to focus on what gives them the most pleasure. Not only can the rider reach their own clit, but their partner can too.\u201d By leaning forward in this sex position, you may experience \u201cclit-to-pubic bone pressure\u201d that can help the person who is riding climax.<\/p>\n O\u2019Reilly actually suggests testing out the sleeping cowgirl. She says, \u201cInstead of sitting up, lie down and squeeze your legs together. Your partner can still pump in and out as you grind against their body increasing the likelihood of orgasm.\u201d<\/p>\n Cowgirl is great, but you have even more control in the reverse form of this classic sex position.<\/p>\n Get on top like you normally would in cowgirl, but turn around so your butt is facing your partner. When you’re reversed, the angle from which they enter you allows for easier, more consistent access to your G-spot. O\u2019Reilly suggests, \u201cHave your partner bend their legs with their feet flat on the mattress. You can rub yourself against their thighs for extra friction.\u201d<\/p>\n If you’re not in a relationship with penis-vagina stimulation, Queen says one way you can get pleasure from positions like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl is by trying\u00a0strap-on sex with a dildo<\/a>. \u201cThese can look a lot like a penis, but not everyone is into that, so they can also look quite different and you can think of them as pleasure implements rather than as optional body parts,\u201d Queen says.<\/p>\n Lie on your stomach and have your partner lie on their stomach on top of your back. It should look like you’re both about the do the worm. Your partner could either prop themselves up on their hands so they\u2019re in a slight push-up position or just keep their stomach resting on your back. Now, lift your butt up so they can enter you from behind.<\/p>\n Jean says, \u201cThis position is great for deeper penetration with less movement required while also providing physical closeness and a nice firm pressure from their body atop yours. It\u2019s also a great position that\u2019s easy on both persons\u2019 hips.\u201d<\/p>\n O\u2019Reilly suggests \u201c[wrapping] your hands right around your vulva with your palm on your pubic mound and your fingers along your lips to create a pocket. Grind, pulse, rub, and press to your heart\u2019s delight.\u201d She says you can also use the\u00a0We-Vibe Touch<\/a>\u00a0($94.05, Amazon.com) toy for taking things up a notch.<\/p>\n If having both of you on the bed is getting tedious, consider switching things up. Your partner can stand on the floor in front of the bed while you scoot down to the very edge of the bed and spread your legs. Your partner can enter you while they\u2019re standing, and the perpendicular angle will make your clitoris extra visible, so it’ll be easier for them \u2014 or you \u2014 to touch it. Lift your butt slightly and place one leg on your partner\u2019s shoulder for even deeper penetration.<\/p>\n Queen says how tall your bed and partner are will both come into play here. She suggests adding a pillow under your butt or trying\u00a0sex position furniture<\/a>.<\/p>\n And if you really want to take things to the next level, O\u2019Reilly says, \u201cTry this one from behind (by flipping onto your stomach) with a few pillows beneath your hips.\u201d<\/p>\n This position doesn’t require a lot of effort. Have your partner sit up normally while you straddle them so you’re face-to-face. Now, instead of bouncing up and down, simply swirl yourself around and rock back and forth so they hit the wall of your G-spot over and over again. Lean back for easier access to the clitoris.<\/p>\n Like cowgirl, Jean says this position gives you the opportunity \u201cto get your grind on\u201d for the amount of pressure you desire. And according to WomensHealthMag.com,\u00a0straddling your partner<\/a>\u00a0is a great move because it puts you in complete control. You decide how slow or fast you\u2019d like the movement to be for ultimate pleasure.<\/p>\n In addition to these positions, O\u2019Reilly suggests more movements you can test out, including the Rocking Horse: “Sit all the way down and rock your hips from front to back. Picture yourself sensually riding a rocking horse for this move”; Sitting on your knees: “Lean backward in a kneeling position and pump up and down\u201d; or changing things up by \u201calternating between 10 very shallow pumps and 10 deep ones pressing your lips and lower thighs into [your partner\u2019s] hips\/pelvis.\u201d<\/p>\n Additional reporting by Alexa Mellardo.<\/em><\/p>\n This article was originally published on\u00a01. Pillow Talk<\/h2>\n
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3. Sexual Spooning<\/h2>\n
4. Cowgirl<\/h2>\n
5. Reverse Cowgirl<\/h2>\n
6. The Double Worm<\/h2>\n
7. The Stand Up<\/h2>\n
8. The Straddle<\/h2>\n
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