This cougar is sharpening her claws and isnât holding back.
After spending seven years dating men her age and being let down, 38-year-old Hayli Hooper has decided to shift her focus to younger guys.

Hayli Hooper is giving up on men her age and sharpening her claws.Jam Press/@haylihooper
She didnât stop there, adding, âAll they want is some kind of stepmom for their kids. And they always bring along baggage from being with their ex-wives,â She also pointed out, âMore often than not, though, theyâre so judgmental.â
In her opinion, men her age are just âboring,â although she confessed, âI donât think they are really too keen on me, either.â
Thatâs where younger men come into the picture.
âI donât mean to date younger,â she clarified, before explaining, âbut they approach me and I end up sleeping with them. Maybe itâs the energy I give off.â
She recalled how a 21-year-old once saved up all his money just to take her out to dinner, yet she still faces judgment for dating younger men.
âGuys my age donât want anything fun,â Hooper, who works part-time as a nurse and part-time as a stripper, complained.Jam Press/@haylihooper
âItâs so common, though, for older men to be celebrated for dating younger. We donât ever talk about how thereâs so many women out there, too, that have already hit their sexual peak and men their age arenât interested,â Hooper explained.
âItâs something I see so common with women my age these days â itâs crazy. So we go for younger guys and weâre usually slammed for it.â

Hooper thinks this makes men her age âboring,â although she admitted, âI donât think they are really too keen on me, either.âJam Press/@haylihooper
Fortunately, she isnât alone in her preference for younger men. Sheâs found a group of women who feel exactly the same way.
âMy friends and I are all open and honest about our sexual experiences, so we pass on the boys once weâre finished and give feedback. These guys love it,â she revealed.
But while this lifestyle is exciting, it hasnât exactly helped her settle down.
âI donât mean to date younger,â she insisted, âbut they approach me and I end up sleeping with them.âJam Press/@haylihooper
âObviously, though, anything serious with them is off the cards,â she admitted, acknowledging one big challenge âYounger men are usually broke, so it can be a bit harder to explore anything further.â
However, sheâs not complaining, adding, âBut they really do try so hard and the sex is incredible. Theyâre just willing to give anything a go, which I really admire.â
When the time comes to look for something serious, she knows she wonât be easy to impress. She describes her approach as âgoing to be cutthroat.â
âI donât want to settle down with someone just for the sake of it. Theyâve got to be right for me, and agree with everything Iâm doing,â she declared.
For now, sheâs content with her lifestyle, saying, âFor now, Iâm having fun with lots of young guys and thatâs fine.â